When we hear that two children are the same age, it can be easy to assume that they will be ready for the same tasks or need similar support. Working with children has made me think more carefully about that assumption. During the Student Development presentation, the discussion about the illusion of the “typical student” stood out to me. It connected to something I have experienced while tutoring: knowing a child’s age does not tell us everything about how they will approach learning.
While working at a learning centre, I supported two six-year-old children who approached their worksheets differently. One understood what to do right away and was able to work independently, while the other needed more guidance. I scaffolded the task for the second child by breaking it into smaller parts and connecting it to familiar examples from their everyday life. Although they were the same age, the support they needed at that moment was different.
Reflecting on this experience, I think about how easily independence could become the main way we judge a student’s ability. The child who begins immediately might appear more capable, while the child who needs help could be seen as struggling. But how much does that first response actually tell us? A student might be unfamiliar with the task, need instructions explained differently, or need help connecting the idea to something they already understand. Needing support with one worksheet does not give us a complete picture of that child as a learner.
The Student Development presentation helped me connect this experience to the idea that children can differ even within the same age group. Developmental theories can help us understand general patterns and plan appropriate learning experiences, but we still need to pay attention to the individual students in front of us. I also think it is important to recognize that differences in performance are not automatically differences in development. Children bring different experiences and prior knowledge to a task, which can influence how familiar or accessible it feels.
This also connects to scaffolding, discussed in the Learning Process presentation. In my tutoring experience, breaking down the worksheet and using familiar examples gave me a way to respond to the child’s needs while keeping them involved in the task. As a future educator, I want to become more intentional about deciding when to step in, what kind of help to provide, and when to step back. That balance matters because I want students to feel supported while also having opportunities to try things for themselves.
In my future classroom, I would like to build flexibility into my planning. Some students might be ready to begin after a whole-class explanation, while others might benefit from a model, a familiar example, or a brief check-in. I want to notice what students can do with support and how that changes over time. I also want to remain open to the possibility that the student who works independently in one activity may need more guidance in another.
For me, this means getting to know students beyond their age or grade. I want to keep asking: What does this child already understand, and what could help them take the next step? Two children can share a starting age without sharing the same starting point for every learning experience.
SumayyahN@OTU