When I hear the word 'failure', I feel this heavy weight on my shoulders. Failure has always carried such a negative weight. The key learning workshop about failure made me realize that it may not be as bad as I have made it out to be my whole life.
The Innovation Paradox from Farson and Keyes really stuck with me, because it made me realize that success isn't always the best case scenario. It can lead to caution, complacency, or even boredom. If everything is going well, we then stop taking risks. But, failure can push us to grow and learn from our mistakes. It teaches us lessons and builds resilience. It even makes the success feel way sweeter because we worked that much harder for it.
As future teachers, this perspective is huge. If we want our students to be creative thinkers and problem solvers, they need a space to fail safely and to know that we are there to help them. This means shifting our effort from people who prevent failure, but as facilitators of failure.
I liked the point about the number of failures being more damaging than the degree of failure. It made me think that it's not about one big mistake, but about repeated discouragement and disappointment. This is why giving small tasks and achieving small successes matter so much. By breaking down goals, our students can experience trial and error without being disappointed by one big failure.
Society definitely doesn't make it easy on us. Failure is judged harshly, especially in my own family, and I can imagine that students carry that same pressure. If we, as teachers, encourage risk-taking and normalize that mistakes are part of learning, we are giving them tools to use even outside of the classroom. Deci and Ryan's ideas about student autonomy show us why we need to let students try, and sometimes fail, on their own instead of protecting them from it.
I've learned that failure isn't the opposite of success, but it's what makes success meaningful. For me, this was a big mindset shift. Instead of dreading failure in my own teaching journey, I aim to see it as part of how I'll grow into a better educator. Hopefully, I'd like to pass that mindset on to my future students too.